The Lifegiving Table Chapter 13

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 Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 47 praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. Acts 2:46-47 (NIV) 

I’ve read this passage many times over the years but I love how Sally talks about wanting her home and her table to reflect that passage. Our table can be a place of fellowship and praise; believers breaking bread together with glad hearts. I long for my table to be a place where people can gather and be glad. I know that it will never be a place of perfect peace and harmony as I’m raising children. However, I love the idea of working towards creating that environment so that it is a place where we feel connected and nourished both physically and spiritually.

Sally states, ” Having deep meaningful relationships is not just a pleasant addition to our lives, but an element essential to our identities.” There was a time in my life when I let things get so busy that I was not taking time to cultivate deep relationships. I had ‘friends’ and acquaintances but I was not spending time developing those relationships. Between work, mothering, volunteering, and other obligations I felt I barely had time for those under my own roof. If I am not careful, I can still fall into those patterns at times. I have learned that making time for those relationships is vital to my overall well being. God created us to be in relationship, first with Him but also with others. This does not mean that I have to go ‘hang out’ with my friends every day or neglect my family or my duties. However, I do need to take time to cultivate relationships both with-in my home and in the community. This can be as simple as inviting a mom and children over for a play date and tea or gathering at the park with friends.

She also says, “Friends give us strength as we walk through life.” This statement is so very true and I have been blessed with some of the very best. God led me to a group of ladies in college that remain faithful in my life. We have laughed together, cried together, and stayed close through marriages, babies, international moves and more. In addition to those ladies with whom I have daily contact but only get to see annually or semi-annually God has blessed me with other local friends that can comfort me when I’m upset, set me straight when I over react, and praise God with me in the good times. I pray that I can be their strength as well. We know that our ultimate strength comes from the Lord but I believe that he uses our friends to help us along the way.

I really connected with the section on helping one another where she talks about having friends and family who are instrumental in a child’s faith. She says, “all of us stand for this legacy of faith.”  The Bible clearly gives parents the responsibility for raising their children in the Lord. However, having family and friends that can help us on this path is so important. We have been blessed with an extended family that helps us to guide our children as well as great friends. Several years ago we became part of American Heritage Girls and Trail Life. Those organizations have provided us with several such families and examples for our children. In a world where we often feel like we are swimming upstream against the culture, it is amazing to have other examples of Godly men and women in our children’s lives. Those men and women reinforce what we are already teaching our children about living Godly lives.

As we close this chapter I encourage you to consider one of her ideas in your own home. Whether that is asking discussion questions around your table or inviting someone or a group of people over for a friendship tea. Even having a few friends over for lemonade and cookies while the children play can strengthen your friendship.  We have one last chapter next week to wrap up this study. I have enjoyed going through the book and sharing with everyone. I hope that it has made an impact on your lives as it has with mine. If you have tried anything or made any changes in your home and are willing to share I’d love to hear about it in the comments.

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A Quick History Update

It feels like it has been awhile since I updated you on Our Journey Through History. We have had a nice extended holiday break that included a snow storm and my daughter’s birthday. However, we did get some history done during break and are jumping into the Civil War this month.

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Over break we enjoyed watching Davy Crockett, King of the Wild Frontier as a review of our study of the Alamo. There are obviously some fictional aspects of this film but it is a great way to spark discussion about the events surrounding the Alamo and the expansion of the United States.  We listened to O Henry’s Christmas story, Injunction part of a radio theater presentation by Focus on the Family, Traveling Home for Christmas.  This was a fun story that gave some insight into life during the California Gold Rush.

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We also enjoyed molasses cake with apple sauce from an Oregon Trail recipe. We did have to adapt the recipe as it was far too loose as written, so we doubled the flour to get the right consistency. It was a tasty treat.

As we begin our study of the Civil War and try to get back into a normal routine, we did a K-W-L chart about the Civil War and have several field trips planned. If you are unfamiliar with a K-W-L chart you simply make a three-column form. The K you list all of the things you ‘Know’ about the subject. Under the ‘W’ you list the things you want to know about the subject. This can help you as you are covering broad topics to include those things the children are interested in learning. When you have finished the study, go back and put the things that you ‘Learned’ under the ‘L’.

I was surprised to realize that they both had an interest in Civil War medicine. This was not an area I had originally planned to focus on but given their interest, we will be including several activities to learn more about that aspect of the war.

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A Few Freebies and Deals This Month!

I’m pretty excited about this new app and its on sale for 25% off right now! We love All About Spelling but this app gives us so much flexibility to take our work and practice on the road and not have to worry about losing the tiles. Check out AALP Letter Tile App today!

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Apologia is having a huge store wide stock up sale! Great time to buy if you want to change curriculum for next year or if you are looking to switch things up this semester.

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Free Daily Writing Prompts for Elementary or Teens Write Shop is offering free daily writing prompts to help make teaching writing just a little easier.

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Schoolhouse Teachers is having a huge Jan. Sale. A full annual membership for only $90 for your whole family. I have a complete review of this program coming on Monday but we are excited to be using a preschool class for Benjamin, several resources to help in our history, and possibly one of the health classes for the older children.

Struggling with memorizing those multiplication tables? Educents has Times Tales almost half off right now! They also have the complete learn to read Hooked on Phonics set at over half off right now. This is a slightly newer version than what we used but Hooked on Phonics was the program that finally taught my daughter to read.

This is a great FREE challenge to help get some of that energy out inside even during this crazy weather.  Lots of new activities and several age levels to choose from.

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Schoolhouse Teachers

When I started reviewing SchoolhouseTeachers.com  and their Yearly Membership one of the areas that I was most interested in was the Preschool Playground. I’m a firm believer that most of a young child’s learning is done through play. However, as a busy homeschooling mom of three (soon to be 4) children and a small business owner, I also know that I need a little help in being intentional about providing opportunities and constructive play. My three-year-old also thinks that he should do everything the older two children do and that includes ‘doing school’. I love how there are so many different resources available to meet a variety of needs.

Sensory Science

The course we plan to start implementing next week is a course called Small-World Sensory Science. This course is twelve lessons (we will work on one lesson per week) on various science topics including oceans, sorting, gardening, and more.  Each lesson includes an introduction or activity that you can lead with your child, and then sensory activities that they can engage in throughout the week.

This gentle laid back but engaging approach is perfect for the season that we are in as a family. I can easily set up the week in just a few minutes using mostly materials we already have available. It took me about 5 minutes to get together everything I needed to be ready to start next week and it was all materials we already had on hand around the house.

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He loved helping me get his stuff ready for school next week. It all fits nicely into his tub.

Charlotte Mason Preschool

I’m also very interested in the Charlotte Mason Preschool class. I love the way it is broken down into various topics. This will allow me to pick and choose what I want to use as we are dealing with those topics in life and with my older children’s nature study.

I’m particularly interested in using the Snow and Ice unit if we happen to get some winter weather this year. Living in Eastern North Carolina, some years we get snow and ice, and some years we do not.

Middle Grades Resources

I also have a middle schooler that has been working more and more on independent research. It can be so hard to find safe and appropriate resources for him. I love the subscription to World Book that comes with the Schoolhouse Teachers Annual Subscription.

It also includes some really nice timelines that are pre-done as well as the chance for them to build their own timelines. I am hoping this will really help us as we work our way through history.

Video Library

Another resource that I’m very excited about it the video library. There are some great videos for any subject. The two series I’m most excited about are the Drive Thru History videos and the Torchlighter videos. We have seen some of the Torchlighter videos which feature various missionaries and the children love them and are looking forward to watching more of them.

There are so many options available and I love that we can try something and if it is not working for our family, I can simply stop and switch to a different class or I can pick and choose lessons to supplement some of the work that we are already doing. I also love that they have options available from preschool all the way through high school. Right now I have a middle school student, an elementary student, and a preschooler with a baby due in February. This means that in a couple of years I will have a child in every area and it’s so nice to have the flexibility of finding courses for each one in the same program and for one low annual cost.

**Update for 2019**

We are still loving using the classes at Schoolhouse Teachers. My son is now also using one of the 7th-grade literature programs and it is working so well for our family that my daughter is planning on switching to a similar course next year. Having so many courses available to us allows us to change things up as needed without any wasted money.

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Monthly Lego Challenge!

 

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I know that many of our children love to build with Lego’s and they enjoy sharing their hard work. So I’ve decided that I’m going to do a monthly Lego challenge in 2018. Each month will have a different broad theme. The child can build their own creation or use a kit to meet that theme. If you have little ones who want to participate duplos or mega blocks are welcome as well. This is not a competition but a chance for every child to do their best and have their work showcased on the blog. I will announce the theme for the month at the beginning of the month.

You can e-mail me or place you pictures in the Facebook post for that months challenge. I’ll compile all of the pictures and share them in a blog post each month. With your picture I would love to have you share your child’s first name and age as well as the ‘title’ of their project.  I will put this in the caption of the photo when I share.  For example my son would have Matthew, age 11 ‘Tryon Palace’.

I hope that this is a great way for them to be able to share their hard work and get creative ideas from others. Please feel free to share this post or the Facebook post to get others involved.

Our theme for January will be ‘Outside’. This could be anything from outside, a scene, an animal, or an object.  Please let me know if you have any questions. I’m looking forward to seeing everyone’s projects. I will place a Facebook post up asking for pictures on the last Monday of the month and have the blog post go live on the 1st day of the next month. So for January the Facebook post will go up on January 29th and the pictures will go on the blog February 1st.

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Three Kings Day or Twelfth Night Celebrations

Growing up in Eastern North Carolina, our annual Christmas celebrations culminated on December 25th.  In our family, we typically kept our tree up until around New Year’s Day. Then packed everything away. However, traditionally December 25th was the start of Christmas and not the end of Christmas.

When you think of the ’12 Days of Christmas’ song, December 25th was only the beginning of those twelve days.  While I was in high school and college, I began to work with a missions organization and take trips down to Piedras Negras, Mexico. During some of these trips, I happened to be in Mexico for ‘El Dia De Los Reyes’ or Three Kings Day.

It was such a fun celebration with yummy food. Add to that a college roommate whose family celebrated the holiday, and I was officially hooked. While it does not hold the importance of December 25th in our celebrations, it is a holiday that we enjoy.

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Three Kings Day Cake baked by my daughter for our 4-H project.

Fast forward a few years, and my husband and I became involved in activities at a local historical site. They had an event called ‘Twelfth Night’ that sounded like fun, so we decided to check it out. I was surprised by the similarities between ‘Three Kings Day’ and ‘Twelfth Night.’

Depending on who is celebrating and what historical information you are looking at, it appears that ‘Twelfth Night’ could have been celebrated on January 5th or the 6th.  Three Kings Day is on January 6th. Both holidays are celebrated with a special cake. ‘Three Kings Day’ cake is called ‘Rosca de Reyes’ and is a ring-shaped cake with lots of dried fruit. It also contains a special baby doll representative of Baby Jesus hidden inside the cake. The person who finds the baby was to host the next party on February 2nd.  Twelfth Night Cake is a sweeter, more European-style cake but also involves things hidden within the cake. A bean and a pea are hidden in the ‘Twelfth Night” cake. The man and woman who finds those become King and Queen for the night.

While we know that the wise men or kings probably did not find Jesus until several years after he was born, this is the day that many churches celebrate them finding Baby Jesus. In honor of that, some cultures that celebrate ‘Three Kings Day’ have a tradition of having children put out shoes with hay for the camels and waking up to find treats in the shoes.

Our family typically enjoys Rosca De Reyes and talks about the Wise Men that found Jesus. We use this as a time to wrap up our holiday celebrations and enjoy a bit of Mexican culture. It is a great time to do a hymn study on ‘We Three Kings‘ or a simple Bible study about what we know about the men who came to worship Christ.

I have included some resources, information below, and a couple of recipes to get you started. Has your family ever celebrated either one of these holidays? Do you enjoy learning more about other cultures and their special days?

Kings Day Recipes

Martha Washington’s Twelfth Night Cake

Rosca de Reyes

Resources:

Dia de Los Reyes

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Deals and Freebies!

All About Learning Press has a great giveaway going for a tablet and their awesome app!

$10 off $10 coupon for Evan-Moor Books makes for some great deals or maybe even a freebie!

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If you are looking to add some new electives or switch up some of your classes, SchoolhouseTeachers.com is having a great sale.

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Snow School

2014-02-12 08.11.05 For some of you, snow is a regular part of winter while many others never see snow. We live in Eastern North Carolina so we do not get a lot of snow. Most years we have a dusting or a bit more at least once. In our house it is tradition to do ‘snow school’ on those days. We cancel regular school and everything focuses on snow. If you live where it doesn’t snow don’t despair, I have some fun ‘snow day’ ideas for you too! *Some of the links in my posts may be affiliate links see below for more information. * While I certainly do not worry about covering every subject on our snow school days, I have found that I can incorporate most subjects very easily. One thing we always so is nature study. The snow and the world around us is so beautiful and quiet. We bundle everyone up and go for a nice walk through the woods behind our home. The children look for prints in the snow, neat patterns of snow, animals and anything else they can find. This also gets us out of the house and moving (physical education). Then the children play by pulling each other on sleds (we live in the flat lands), making snowmen, or having snowball fights. When everyone is ready to come in and warm up we have some great food traditions. My husband makes his famous homemade hot cocoa and we always have a pot of warm potato soup. We also love to make snow cream (which for those unfamiliar is like ice cream made from snow) and have occasionally made maple candy. The maple candy is a fun connection if you are reading or interested in the Little House on the Prairie. 2014-02-12 12.00.01 Another fun outside activity is to ‘paint’ the snow. Take a bit of food dye (we use the plant based ones) and mix into water in spray bottles to achieve your desired colors. Then you just go outside and spray the snow to make cool designs. This works best when the air temperatures are cold enough to allow the colored water to freeze quickly. For a bit of math you can talk about the symmetry and other geometric concepts of snowflakes. We also cut out paper snowflakes for symmetry. I’ve shared some great resources on these concepts in the resource list below. While we typically don’t do much writing on snow school days aside from our nature journals there are some great snow writing prompts available if that is a subject you need to get covered but want to keep thematic. These are also great if you are doing a fake ‘snow day’ in climates that do not typically get real snow. If you are trying to keep the children entertained indoors there are some super fun snow themed art projects. One fun one is this salt dough snowman art. I also found this free snowman chalk pastel video art tutorial from You Are an Artist Chalk Pastels. Once we are all tired out from a day of playing and hiking in the snow, we love to cuddle up some  hot cocoa and good books. I’ve included a list of a few of our favorite snow themed ones below. If you do not get snow, there is a recipe for making fake snow for the children to play with and you can do a snow themed day filled with books, food, and snow art.

Resources:

Snowflake Geometry Snow Math (Elementary) Geoboard Snowflakes Winter Writing Prompts (teens) Winter Writing Prompts (elementary) Making Fake Snow Snow Themed Sensory Play Snow Themed Bible Printables Winter Themed Multiplication Winter Themed Easy Readers Hot Chocolate Science Snow Week Resources (including one of our favorite fun snacks, tortilla snowflakes) Snowflake Activities (including several fun edible ones) Snow and Ice Charlotte Mason Preschool Lessons (Note these are not free but are included with a Schoolhouse Teachers membership.)

Snow Themed Books and Movies

Snowy Day (book) Snowy Day (movie)(free for prime members and you can get a free 30 day trial here.) Snowman Paul (Free for Kindle at the time of posting) Katy and the Big Snow Snow Treasure (great chapter book) Three Snow Bears (We love Jan Brett’s books) Boxcar Children Mystery in the Snow (only .99 for Kindle at the time of posting) Boxcar Children Mystery at Snowflake Inn (only .99 for Kindle at the time of posting) The Long Winter (This would make a great read aloud or audio book. if you have not tried audible you can get it free with a 30 day free trial here) Snow Storm Video (This free Amazon prime video shows a snow storm. This would be great for setting the mood if you don’t have any real snow outside. It is not an action movie but a great backdrop.) Snowflake Bentley (Amazon Movie–We have not yet watched this one but have heard great reviews about the book and plan on watching this one when it we need a break from the cold outside. ) Snowflake Bentley (Book)

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My 2018 Book List

If you have been following along on my Facebook page, you know that I have a goal of reading 12 books this year. To some of you that may not seem like many, and in other stages of my life I would have easily read twelve books in a month. However, as the mother of three with number four due in February my reading time is more limited now. I am not including the books I plan to read aloud to the children in those twelve books.

I originally planned on having all twelve planned out, but after searching and praying I’ve started with my first six and I’ll add to the list from there. This gives me a good foundation and the flexibility to add books to my list as the year progresses. My plan is to include a variety of books from inspirational to fiction that will add value to my life. My ‘word’ for the year is purposeful and I want to make sure even my book selections fit that focus.

My first selection I actually started on December 31st and I’m loving it. I may be a little biased because it was written by my husband, but seriously I’m enjoying it and looking forward to incorporating it into our homeschool this spring. It is a middle grades historical fiction novel about the Vietnam War. The title is Hero’s Next Door–Hornet 24I had read bits and pieces as he wrote it but he printed me a preview copy to read while we wait for the publisher to get final copies ready for publication. I have already learned things about the Vietnam War that I never knew. It includes a lot of great historical content but all from a perspective that is appropriate for younger audiences (which we have had difficulty finding).

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My second book for the year is going to be Finding Selah by Kristen Kill. This book releases January 9th. I have enjoyed listen to Kristen on the podcast that she does with Sally Clarkson and the concept behind this book really resonates with me. The description reads in part: “The Psalms call it selah—the pause, rest, or interlude between the notes in a song. More than merely an empty space, selah is a chance to stop and resync with the story and song of God. For all the ways life keeps you running, this word and practice offers a way to re-center yourself on the One who holds all things together and makes all things beautiful.” While I won’t be doing a full book study on this one because of the arrival of the baby, I am hoping to blog and share some insights.

My third selection is a fun one that I find relaxing and enjoyable. I want to read the next book in The Cottage Tales of Beatrix Potter by Susan Wittig Albert. I started these last summer and they are well written, interesting and easy reading. They make great summer reads. If you want more information about them you can read my review of the first one.

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My fourth selection is about nature study.  Nature study is a part of our homeschool that I view as valuable but feel like we need to be more purposeful and intentional in our nature study.  Pocketful of Pinecones is written in story format but has over 100 examples of what to look for in nature walks, study questions, and more. I am hoping that this book will give me fresh ideas and help revitalize our nature study time.

Many of you have heard of the Read Aloud Revival or Teaching from Rest by Sarah Mackenzie. She has written a new book entitled  Read Aloud Family: Making Meaningful and Lasting Connections with Your Kids. I’m very excited about reading this once it is released in March.

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My sixth choice releases in May of 2018. Sally Clarkson has a new book called Lifegiving Parents. I did a book study on her last book which was the Lifegiving Table and really felt like it had a positive effect on my parenting and our home. I’m looking forward to continuing my journey with this new book and will probably also do a book study in conjunction with the book if anyone is interested in reading along with me.

Over the course of the year I’ll choose at least six other books to add to my list. Books that add value and enjoyment to my life. I may change the order of the books depending on life circumstances, we shall see what the year holds. I’d love for you to share in the comments what you want to read this year.

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2018 A ‘Purposeful’ Year

January 1st is a time when many people evaluate the year behind them and make goals or resolutions for the year ahead. There are many ways of doing this but several years ago I started doing the ‘word for the year’ idea. While some years I’ve done better than others I have found it to be a really good fit for me personally. It gives me focus and guides me without making me feel like a failure if I don’t meet certain specific guidelines.

This year my word of the year is ‘Purposeful’. I spent quite a bit of time over the last few weeks praying and thinking about choosing my word. I knew that I wanted to be very aware of how I was spending my time and using what was given to me in both time and resources to live well with-in the will of God.

To accompany my word I have chosen Proverbs 19:21 as my scripture for the year.   “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.” Proverbs 19:21 NIV

I want to make sure that no matter what my plans and desires, I am focusing on the Lord’s purpose for my days. Sometime I think that for me it is easier for me to do that on a large scale than a smaller daily scale. I want to go into each day focusing on doing whatever it is that the Lord wishes of me that day. Some days that may be focusing on my home or the children’s schoolwork. Some day I may need to lay aside those carefully crafted plans to focus on other needs in our family, church, or community.

What do I think being ‘purposeful’ will look like in a practical daily sense? I intend to prioritize my prayer and quiet time as well as our family devotions. If I am ‘purposing’ to follow God’s will I have to make sure that I am spending time with him daily so that I may clearly see his will. I intend to evaluate how we are using our time to make sure that we are using it effectively. This doesn’t’ mean that every moment has to be busy and productive but that we are not wasting our time. Sitting quietly and reading a book with my children may not sound productive but it is certainly purposeful.  I intend to be purposeful about reading one book per month. I also want to be purposeful about eating well. I am not looking to diet but want to continue and increase our focus on eating well as a family.

I’ve included links to a few of the resources I intend to use to help me with being more ‘purposeful’ this year below. I would love to know if you have a ‘word’ of the year for 2018.

Resources:

Quiet Time Challenge (Not Consumed): I need to be purposeful with my time with God and I’m hoping this free challenge will help get me back on track. If you need further resources for quiet time she has some great ones in her store.

Finding Selah: This is the first of 12 books that I plan to read (1 per month) and I’m hoping to help find that intentional peace and rest.

Simple Sermon Notes Journal I am hoping this helps keep me focused on Sunday mornings (especially when I’m balancing a new born in a couple months) and helps me to be Purposeful in my walk with God.

Which Planner is the Best One?: Taking the time to plan (while be open to God’s leading) should help me be more purposeful in my use of time.

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New Years Traditions and Freebies

While in many ways each day is a new start, the New Year feels like such a fresh and clean slate. I love the feeling that I have a new start and a chance to recommit and refocus on what is important. People celebrate the New Year in a myriad of ways and our celebrations have changed over the years.

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For the last several years, we have found a set of traditions that works well for us during this time of having younger children. While there were years that I would stay up and ring in the New Year at midnight, now I prefer to be asleep at midnight.

New Year’s Eve Traditions

We have a little town not very far from us that does a ‘Chinese Dragon Run’ each year on New Year’s Eve. They do one early running at about 8 pm and then a later one.

This works well for us because we can go at 8pm and be safely off the road before 9pm. The kids really enjoy the music, the noise, and of course, the brightly colored dragon. Legend has it that touching the dragon brings good luck in the new year.  The kids know it is just a story, but we all have fun trying to touch the dragon.  You may have noticed that food seems to be woven heavily into our traditions; there is no exception here. We enjoy a steaming cup of hot cocoa each New Year’s Eve as we wait for the dragon.

We stay close by with family that evening, typically going to bed shortly after we get home. The next day we ring in the New Year at the river enjoying the beach. While it may be chilly (I’ve seen it below freezing up to the high 60s so you never really know around here.) we enjoy the beautiful views and some time spent together as a family.

Food Traditions for New Years

Once again, food plays a key role in our celebrations. We enjoy black-eyed peas, collards or some other greens, fresh yeast rolls, some kind of meat, and lots of sweet tea. Traditionally, the rolls, greens, and black eyed peas were eaten for luck and wealth in the coming year. While we are clear that ‘every good gift comes from God’, it is a fun and tasty tradition.

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New Year Reflections

We take some time that day to talk as a family about how the past year went and what we hope to accomplish in the year ahead. It is a great time of reflection and planning. We also typically have the children fill out information sheets about themselves. I keep these in a file, and it is nice to be able to look back from year to year and see how things have changed. Sometimes we do these on New Year’s Day, and sometimes I wait until we start back to school.

All in all, we have a fairly low-key but fun time as a family. We have simple but delicious food and a few fun activities that tie it all together. A chance to reflect and dream about he future. I would love to know how you celebrate New Year’s. Do you stay up to ring in the New Year? Go somewhere special or stay home? Maybe you have some favorite foods that you enjoy? I know that different parts of the United States have different traditional foods for the day.

FREE New Years Resources:

New Years Eve Reflections from Purposeful Homemaking (This one looks back on 2017 and plans for 2018 great to do with each member of the family).

New Years Pack (Preschool/early elementary)

New Years Coloring

New Years Bible Printables

New Year Interview

New Years Easy Readers

New Years Printable Party Hats

New Years Creative Writing

Time Capsule Questions

Color By Number

Family Goal Setting Worksheet

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Brother Against Brother: January History Resources

 Brother against Brother 1860-1865

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States rights, slavery, abolitionists, agrarianism, capitalism, central government, and more contribute to another dark chapter. States choose to leave the nation, and the nation refuses to allow their secession.  States are pitted against states, family against family, and in some cases brother against brother.  In the end the grand Union would be retained, albeit at a terrible cost, more dead than all other U.S. wars combined.  The union emerges as a power in the hemisphere, primed to complete the conquest of the continent and stretch influence into the Caribbean, Latin America, and the Pacific.

I could easily spend an entire year just studying the American Civil War. There are the political aspects, the war and battles, the family and home front, and the lasting implications. However, since I only have one month and need to stay on schedule, we are planning on focusing on the political aspects of the war and life during the war. My son is highly interested in the battles so he will probably do some independent study on those. While this is a highly controversial subject in current news and times, I feel that it is an important part of our history and we would do well to cover it as accurately and unbiased as possible. In addition to telling you about some of the resources that we will be using as a family, I’m including some information at the end of this post to help you understand the various names and points of view involved in this one war.

We are hoping to fit in several field trips this month and have already scheduled one to see a Civil War ironclad at one of our state historic sites. In addition to seeing the ironclad itself, we will be doing activities with medicine, hygiene, toys and the uniforms of the era.  Living on the East coast of the United States we have many battlefields and museums with information about this war.  We even have a local battlefield in our own town. It has a beautiful hiking trail that allows us to combine hiking and history.

There are many good books for this era. We have all of our books for this era in a basket and I’m going to let the children pick the ones we read. I’ve pictured a few of their options below.  Some of them deal with the war and others with elements that were going on during the time like the Underground Railroad. Elizabeth is going to complete the American Heritage Girls Freedom Seekers badge as her project this month. This badge is a study in the Underground Railroad. I’m not sure yet what Matthew will choose but I know his interest lies more in the military history.

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For art, we are finishing up some lessons from our American History Chalk Pastel Lessons that we did not get a chance to finish up last month (we spent December’s art time on holiday projects).  I’ve also found these podcasts from our state history museum that may be good to listen to as an easy way to incorporate more history into our days.

As we begin in January, my plan is to make sure we discuss certain key points, but to try and let the children’s interest dictate what aspects of this era that we discuss and study most in-depth. Knowing that we can not cover everything in a month, my goal is to get them excited about learning more and then let them continue to explore with books and resources after we have moved on into the next time period.

Do you have any favorite resources or field trips related to the American Civil War? Share with us in the comments.

 

Further Information About Choosing Resources:

The Civil War, by its very nature, is the most divisive and destructive war our nation has ever fought. We killed, wounded, and displaced more than 3% of the American population.  By modern standards, the loss is equivalent to the entire population of New York City and Chicago. No period of American History is more thoroughly studied, written about, researched, or reenacted.  No period is as polarizing either. Educators will need to find their specific approach to the challenges of this polarization while preparing to teach.  Sources are often strongly influenced by the political or historical views of the author. Historians are even divided as to what to call the war.

Oftentimes, you can broadly categorize the political objective of source material by the use of different names for the conflict.

Civil War – Tends to be more mainstream, often centrist or with a slight pro-union tilt

War Between the States – Commonly used by international scholars, often the most ‘objective’ observers

War to Preserve the Union – often heavily pro-union, abolitionist

War of Northern Aggression – often heavily pro-confederacy, but not necessarily pro-slavery

War against Slavery – often blatantly abolitionist, important in that the use of this term often coincides with little attention to other political factors

War of Southern Secession – Often focuses solely on political factors, leans very pro-confederate and may ignore or minimize the slavery issue.

These terms do not represent a hard and fast guide, but can serve as a starting point to clue you in that the presenter, writer, researcher, or producer may have an agenda.

 

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